by Ray Holland | Dec 30, 2024 | General
The Outcast Fearful, Exposed, Lost Some individuals experience a mismatch wherein the nervous system appraises the environment as dangerous, even when it’s safe. This mismatch results in physiological states that support fight, flight, or freeze behaviors....
by Ray Holland | Dec 30, 2024 | General
X-posing the Fallen Individual Inner Enactment of Avoidance Flickering Triggers The way passion glows sometimes in its exquisite sculptured lamp glass over the stair-well, lights up but flickers. or it’s stuck on, or is unresponsive or it’s all of this at once, to...
by Ray Holland | Dec 30, 2024 | General
X-posing the Fallen Individual X in EXPAND. If spacious stillness is missing, the relationship will be dominated by the mind and can easily be taken over by problems and conflict. If stillness is there, it can contain anything. Eckard Tolle Once you have a sense...
by Ray Holland | Dec 30, 2024 | General
Heart Loss—Tragic Vision “Recall that attuned play amplifies joy, excitement and yes indeed surprise. A positive state in turn allows individuals to experience a situation as safe, to feel unrestrained to take risks, to explore novel pathways and to be creative.”...
by Ray Holland | Dec 30, 2024 | General
Family Bullying I compare human life to a large Mansion of Many Apartments, two of which I can only describe, the doors of the rest being as yet shut upon me. John Keats Our psyches are complex and most of us carry attachment injuries. In this field, beyond the sad...
by Ray Holland | Dec 30, 2024 | General
Internal Resistance Just when people were congratulating themselves on having abolished all spooks, it turned out that instead of haunting the attic or old ruins the spooks were flitting about in the head of apparently normal Europeans. Jung, After the Catastrophe....